Freedom Programme for Men

Freedom Programme for Men

On a date to be confirmed, IDAC will provide a 2 day course for men who wish to improve their behaviour

Email: to reserve a place on the next event

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Men who want to become nicer men

Here is some general information about how these courses are arranged. For detailed instructions you can now buy The Freedom Programme for men, training manual for facilitators from Amazon  in either Kindle format or Paperback.

There will be no charge to attend a course, but every man who attends must bring a copy of ‘Living with the Dominator’ and a completed copy of ‘How Hard Can it Be...?’ the Home Study Course for men.

If a man is in a relationship I will not accept him on to the course unless he attends with his partner. She must also read the book ‘Living With the Dominator’ and bring it with a completed copy of the ‘Home Study Course for Women’ with her to the event. This means that everyone who attends must bring both books to use within the course. The online programme will not suffice.

If you wish to add your name to the list please email the IDAC Team with both of your names. Do not telephone. When the event is confirmed they will email you with the address of the venue. The timetable is printed below.

These strict rules apply

  • Sometimes even though enough people have booked places occasionally they do not all attend. I will not go ahead on the day if I do not have enough. Please make sure you understand this as some of you travel from abroad.
  • No one is allowed to discuss any personal information during the course.
  • All mobile phones must be switched off.
  • Anyone who does not behave in a pleasant, good humored and cooperative manner will be instructed to leave.
  • I do not issue certificates and never write reports for courts or any other agencies.
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Course Content


Time Day 1
9.15 Arrival and coffee
9.30 Introduction to the Freedom Programme
11.00 Coffee break
11.15 The Bully
1.00 Lunch
1.45 Aspects of the Dominator. The Persuader, Headworker, Badfather, King of the Castle and Jailer
3.00 Tea
3.15 Aspects of the Dominator continued
5.00 Finish
Time Day 2
9.30 The Sexual Controller
11.00 Coffee break
11.15 The Effects of Abuse on Children
1.00 Lunch
1.45 The Liar
3.00 Tea
3.15 The Liar continued
4.30 Finish